Stage 5: Adjourning

Being on the cheerleading squad while in junior high school was a group that I was involved in that was dearest to me. We were a very competitive squad and won many first place trophies during competitions. We were very supportive towards one another. In fact, we were close like sisters and often had sleep overs at each other's home.

Indeed, both high performing groups and groups that establish norms are the hardest to leave. We performed at a high level and knew that it was difficult to find girls who were dedicated like us. We trusted each other and were always willing to work together to achieve our goals as a squad.

The coach for the squad had a closing ritual. We first had a banquet that allowed our coach to present awards to deserving members. After the banquet, we changed out of our casual wear to put on our uniforms to perform in front of parents for the last time. The last thing we did for the night was prayed with each other, hugged, and cried until we couldn't stop.

I can only imagine that it will be difficult  to adjourn from my colleagues. I have been enrolled in the same courses with most of them throughout my journey and have established healthy bonds. I am sure that we will wish each other the best on our future endeavors.

Adjourning is a very important stage of teamwork. This gives us the opportunity to say our last good bye's to people we have worked and bonded with. It  is also a stage where a group can celebrate or communicate about weaknesses and how to become a better team.